Family Vacation with Grown Kids: A True Blessing!

 

For the last several years, we’ve been getting the family together for a vacation in Stowe, Vermont. Being from the south, it is quite a change for us—cooler weather, more mountainous, more color, etc. Although we love our state with its beaches and lakes, Vermont showcases another aspect of God’s creativity and glory. While in Vermont we spend our time hiking the beautiful trails, enjoying Vermont’s delicious cheeses, apples and maple syrup, and just spending quality time together.

The views seen from the top of beautiful Mount Mansfield in Stowe are awe-inspiring and the gondola ride is a treat for the grandkids. But, the point of getting together as a family is just that—the family. It’s a time to encourage our grown kids and catch up on their lives, to spend time with our grandkids, and to talk about important things that we usually don’t have time to talk about. We have breakfast each morning out on the stone terrace overlooking the creek and usually share a devotion and a quick prayer before starting our day. Continue reading

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The Joy of Being a Grandparent: Reflections on the “Yes Phase of Life”

 

My 6 year old grandson recently spent a week with me by himself—a short respite from his three little gregarious and spunky sisters. We had a wonderful time conversing about life, catching lizards (he did the catching, I just watched), and drawing castles. He just glowed with delight, being the only one here on the receiving end of his grandma’s love and attention.

When I was at his school last year for Grandparent’s Day the principal of the school said something that stuck with me. I thought it was rather profound. She told all the grandparents gathered on that day that although they had already raised their children—working hard to instill discipline and often saying “no”—we were now in the “yes phase of life.” I love that because it is so true. Grandparents get much joy out of saying “yes” to their grandchildren.

My grandson heard me talking about that to someone after the event at his school and asked me what it meant. We talked about it and since then, he loves to remind me (at key moments, of course) that I am, indeed, in the “yes phase of life.”

God wants to say “yes” to us, his children, as well. He desires the very best for us and is the giver of all good things. It brings Him joy to meet our needs and bestow blessings on us. Of course, in his infinite wisdom, he doesn’t always grant our requests just as we use good judgement in saying “yes” to our grands. But God is for you. He loves you—so much that he did not spare His own Son but gave Him up as a sacrifice to pay for your (and my) sin.

Grandparents, remember to say “yes” to those littles. Shower them with love and affection and teach them about the ultimate giver of good things—God himself.

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.” James 1:16-17

“For the Lord God is a sun and shield; The Lord will give grace and glory; No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. O Lord of hosts, blessed is the man who trusts in you.” Psalm 84:11-12

“Oh, that men would give thanks to the Lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men! For He satisfies the longing soul, and fills the hungry soul with goodness.” Psalm 107:8-9

 

 

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3 Essentials for a Godly Life

There are so many things vying for our attention in this life. We want to be successful at work and earn that next promotion. We try hard to keep a perfect and orderly home—one that our friends will admire. We get caught up in the politics and social issues of the day—such that we neglect time in the Word and in prayer. It’s easy for believers to lose focus and forget what is truly important.

And just what are the essentials of a godly Christian life?

Well, I believe there are 3 basic things: service, love and devotion

As believers, we should have a desire to serve others and to use our gifts and talents in service to Him. In the church my husband and I attend, there are numerous opportunities to engage in service, both within the church body and in the greater community. Yes, we sometimes hesitate to sign up for these service opportunities thinking, there are others who will do it, or we don’t have time, but you are needed and there are certain opportunities for which you are uniquely gifted. The next time the call goes out for help in a ministry or project, go for it! You will be glad you did. Continue reading

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God’s Word: Absolute Truth in an Age of Lies

Mid-morning is my favorite time to read the Bible, study scripture and pray. I have the luxury of having free time in the middle of the morning because I no longer have kids at home and have recently retired. My quiet time with the Lord is the very best part of my day. I sometimes use a devotional as a guide for my reading or just read through a certain book of the Bible. Many times I am preparing for a particular Bible study I may be involved in or leading that week. Sometimes I get  busy or unexpected things happen in life and I miss my personal time with the Lord but, I try to reset and pick back up the next day. Why is it so important to study the Bible?

The Bible is literally God’s Word. It was written through men inspired and led by the Holy Spirit to write God’s message to us. It was given so that we could know who God is—the creator and sustainer of the universe— and could find our way to Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. The Bible has been preserved and passed down through time—generation to generation. It is complete and without error—the source of all truth. The world today would like us to think that truth is relative. You live your truth, I’ll live mine. But if truth is a moveable, malleable standard, then it is not truth at all!

The Bible is meant to be read, studied, mediated on—then read again. There is so much to learn from it. Find time to read it daily, praying for the Holy Spirit to open your spiritual eyes to what God has to say before you begin. When we read the Bible we are connected to God in a supernatural way.

Parents, teach your children the Bible as the ultimate standard of truth by which all ideas, actions and attitudes are to be judged. In these desperate days of uncertainty, atheism and shifting values, they need the solid ground of scripture on which to stand. The next generation will need to know the Bible to repel the ideals of secularism and to defend their faith. We need to raise a generation who knows truth and will not compromise.

I hope you can find time to read the Word each day no matter your situation in life. It gives us strength for daily life and hope for the future. It provides answers and direction for life’s problems and decisions. There is no other book on earth as important—read it today.

“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3:16 (NKJV)

“Therefore, you shall lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be frontlets between your eyes. You shall teach them to your children, speaking of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.” Deuteronomy 11:18-19 (NKJV)

“Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Psalm 119:105 (NKJV)

 

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Deep Thoughts on Steadfast Faith

 

Faith is a living and unshakable confidence. A belief in God so assured that a man would die a thousand deaths for its sake. —Martin Luther

Why do I believe there is a God when so many others don’t? Why do I believe, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that God’s Word is true? How can I be unwaveringly confident that when I die I will be with Jesus and will spend eternity with Him? Why am I confident that God is good, in spite of all the suffering in the world? It all sounds so crazy, doesn’t it? The average person today might think so. But I believe these things, and that will never change—nothing can dissuade me. These ideas are firmly and forever a part of my belief system. But, why?

I ruminated on this subject a few weeks ago as my husband and I drove along the interstate towards home after a short trip. I asked my husband the question: “Why do you and I believe so firmly in God and know that the Bible is true?” (I like deep meaningful conversations . . . him—a doer rather than a thinker—not so much.) He, of course, gave his standard short answer, “I don’t know, we just do.” But I wanted to get to the bottom of it. Undeterred, I continued thinking out loud and attempted to get him to engage on the issue.

I was raised in a Christian home in the south by conservative, evangelical parents. I don’t even remember my first church experience because—I was only a few weeks old! I have always been in church. My parents took us every time the doors were open, as they say. We were involved in children’s and youth choirs, missions organizations, Sunday school, Bible studies and youth group. In the summer we went to youth camps and also participated in choir tours where we sang in churches all over the country.

Faith and church-life was at the heart of our family. I came to know Christ and was baptized at 8 years old. My dad was a deacon and Sunday school teacher, my mom sang in the choir and taught children’s Sunday school. Church was the place where we developed deep, life-long friendships. We heard the Word preached weekly, with authority and passion. I was a member of the same church from infancy through college. I loved my church.

I share my experience and spiritual history because I know that it has much to do with the solidity of my faith. You see, my parents intentionally passed their faith on to me. They told me about Jesus, they took me to church and they lived out their faith for me to see. For them, faith wasn’t just a part of their life—it was their life—as it should be for all Christians.

But I believe there is another more important reason why my faith is immoveable. You see, when my parents, so wisely, planted that seed of belief in me all those years ago, God took it and established it in my heart. He made sure it was watered by godly mentors and teachers, fed by the hearing of His Word, and matured through trials and disappointments. If it were left up to me, that seedling of faith would have long ago wilted under the hardships, setbacks and doubts of this world.

It is God who sustains my faith—daily, even moment-by-moment. He holds me in His protective hand—a progeny of faithful parents—and He will keep me, until He calls me home…and beyond. I believe strong faith is a gift of God and a blessing. I am grateful for it—and so grateful for my Savior, Jesus Christ, who died on the cross for me, taking the punishment for my sins that I might spend an eternity with Him!

Hmm . . . what deep theological question can I bring up to my sweet husband on our next trip? Maybe this time he will answer using more than six words. One can only hope.

“He said to them, ‘But who do you say that I am?’ Simon Peter answered and said, ‘You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.’ Jesus answered and said to him, ‘Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven.'” Matthew 16:15-17 (NKJV)

“So then faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.” Romans 10:17 (NKJV)

“For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Ephesians 2:8 (NKJV)

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV)

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, even though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; though its waters roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with its swelling.”  Psalm 46:1-3 (NKJV)

 

 

 

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